Kindness at The Outback

 Yesterday, we laid G-mama to rest.

Around 30 people gathered in person to celebrate G-mama’s life.

Around 10 people gathered online to do the same.

My dad and I officiated the ceremony.  

My dad focused his thoughts on G-mama’s love for God and family

And he told stories that made everyone laugh.

I focused my thoughts on G-mama’s love for music

And I sang two of her favorite hymns: “The Old Rugged Cross” and “How Great Thou Art.”

After the service, and many pictures documenting the day—

G-mama loved taking pictures!—

The family went to Outback Steakhouse to have lunch.

 

When our party of 21 all arrived at the steakhouse at the same time,

The waitress seemed surprised.

I told her that we had just come from my grandmother’s funeral.

I explained that G-mama had been 99 years old and that she had loved Bloomin’ Onions.

I shared that we had chosen to eat at Outback in G-mama’s honor.

 

After a delicious meal where everyone ate more than their fill,

The waitress came to deliver the bill.

She said, “We went on and took care of those Bloomin’ Onions for you.”

 

The Outback took care of the Bloomin’ Onions to honor G-mama’s life.

 

Dear God: For simple kindnesses in the middle of celebration and grief, thank you. May we be a people of simple kindnesses and may those kindnesses change someone’s world. Amen.